,

Why Read This? Here's 51% of the Reason.

A friend recently asked me what people get from reading my writing. I had to ponder this. I started listening to the book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie shortly after hearing that question. In the early chapters…
, , ,

Habit Stacking / Don't Snooze

My alarm buzzed this morning at 5:52 am. I hit the snooze button knowing the back-up on my phone was set for seven minutes later. I drifted back to that light NREM sleep that doesn't really have any positive benefit for the body. It kind…
,

The Things I am Learning Volunteering

Children are strange little beings indeed. At their best they are smiling rays of light and life that uplift us in our darkest moments. At their worst they are snotty, obnoxious little people. Regardless of your general outlook on children,…
, , ,

Face First Into Fist (This Week's Colossal Failure)

I did it again. Failure seems to wait for it's chance to remind us that we are weak, slow, and dumb. It found me once again at my Kung Fu school last night. After our normal class ended and we bowed out I invited an old training partner…
, ,

10 Reasons to Start Looking at Networking Positively

If you are the type of person who says, "Eww gross, networking..." then you probably won't read this article. If you already value your network, or if you are just building up your network from a small or malnourished one, then the title…
, , ,

Failure Habits Turned Into Successful Ones

Failing Upwards has been born and grown very organically. I originally set out to reinforce my writing habit and create a new habit of creative production and publication through these posts. My original intention was to produce fiction works.…
, ,

Failure Makes for Progress

We've established that we want to be 9's striving to be 10's. It is impossible to never slip and fail or we'd already be the 10's we're striving to be. Perfection is an irresponsible and unattainable goal. You could spend the whole day doing…
, ,

Making Babies (Creating Experience vs. Selling)

Selling is a part of nearly every occupation and business. My personal experience specifically is in retail and services. I have had tremendous success over the years learning skills and techniques in closing sales and building value. I would…
, ,

The Interconnectivity of All Beings (or How You Met My Network)

Currently my career is in sales. I'm looking to transition back into management after an almost four year break. One of the tools I've placed into my tool-bag and forgot about from my decade of management was my network. Until recently I hadn't…
, , ,

Commitments to Myself

I commit to exhibiting high value behaviors and reducing low value behaviors in my life. I commit to surrounding myself with others who are high value in their actions and reducing interactions with those who are low value. I commit to adding…