The Earth Remembers

It's a tight window, This duration of time. Three thousand or so years since the expanse of civilization. The Earth remembers… The time before; The quiet time near forgotten. She longs for a period of silence And of rest and peace. The…
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Moving On Minute 9-16-19: Don't Leave Angry!

Everyone has experienced bitter partings. Sometimes disagreements and disappointment can lead to resentment or other negative feelings. These emotions are so strong that we want to throw up our hands and walk away, or hang up on the other…
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Good Morning Routine

A good morning routine is a ritual that sets a precedent for a spectacular day. It's a must. I feel that I've dialed in a "good morning routine" that really works. I wanted to share it so people could cherry pick elements that will help get…
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Moving On Minute 9-1-19: Peel the Labels Off

I'm filthy rich! or I'm so poor! I'm sick! or I'm uber-healthy! I hate him. He's mean. and She's so nice. They're all just words, or more precisely, just labels... But then again, perception is reality.   One day that…
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Moving On Minute 8-25-19: Impulsive Urges: Don't Control Them, Direct Them

Some people say, "You have to take the good with the bad." The way our impulses and urges work confirms this statement. Sometime I feel an urge to eat a handful of cookies or chocolates. Other times I feel a similar impulse to go get…
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A Good Time To Be A Quitter

Let's do things a bit differently today. Under normal circumstances I provide helpful tidbits, tricks, and life hacks. Never do I intend to tell anyone that they must do anything I suggest. They don't. I cannot force them. It's entirely each…
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Moving On Minute 8-11-19: Don't Pick Up The Phone!

Don't do it. You're staring at your phone's caller ID as yet another unknown number, or worse yet, a restricted phone number is staring back at you. You may not know exactly who it is, but really, you know exactly who it is. It's no one…
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Moving On Minute 8-4-19: Calibration

People seek out ways to improve themselves. They create changes in their habits and routines with hopes of becoming better versions of themselves When doing so, it's equally important to evaluate those changes to ensure that they are producing…
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Stop & Smell The Roses

Last week I released a piece about the Two Birds One Stone method of hacking a busy schedule or to do list. Finding hacks like that is necessary for the productivity output of the modern entrepreneur or family man or woman. Inversely,…
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Your Schedule & Time Management: The Two Birds Hack

You're doing it! Alright, that's only half of the truth. You have worked incredibly hard on getting your commitments and daily schedule whittled down to productive and constructive tasks. There's a solid foundation set. Be sure to take…
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Moving On Minute 7-14-19: My Network Gave Me Everything

It's impossible to downplay what my network has done for me, and it goes far beyond professional networking. Assuredly, professional networking is important to one's business and financial success. It may possibly be the most important skill…
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Moving On Minute 7-7-19: Face Your Fears

What scares people? The fear of failure is high on the list. It's such a common fear that it has more than one term to describe it. Atychiphobia and Kakorraphiophobia are two of the names to choose from. What about speaking in front of…
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A Letter From My Future Self

Recently, a friend and I were discussing the advice we'd give to our younger selves. I'd thought about this countless times before. Although this has been a recurring concept in my thoughts previously, in this particular moment I've decided…
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Don't Want Want

It's an incredibly liberating to do away with want. Want sucks money directly out of our wallets, bank accounts, and the mattresses and coffee cans we hide it in. In modern times it's too simple to say, "I want this!" Whether we're looking…
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Moving On Minute 4-5-19: Unwrapping My Birthday Present

Birthdays come every year. They are inevitable like trips around the sun and years passing by. At a very young age many people in the United States of America are conditioned to view birthdays as special days. We celebrate birthdays similarly…
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Simplicity Parenting Reflections

Simplicity Parenting may not have stacked up in the category of best books I've ever read, but it was one of the the most important books I've consumed. It will be a long while before I read a book with a message that is as powerful and resonate. Simplicity…
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Moving On Minute: 3-27-19 Don't Overthink It!

How many thoughts go through our heads throughout the course of a day? It's a ridiculous amount. Could anyone possibly know what we're thinking about at any given time? Even with all the fancy technology available in today's world,…
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Moving On Minute 3-23-19: You Don't Know Anything!

I hate to break the news. You don't know anything! The good news is that's a good thing. The faster we acknowledge this fact, the more proficient we'll become at learning and improving ourselves. Unless, of course, we are satisfied with…
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Moving On Minute 3-16-19: Communicating Love to Friends

  How often do you tell a friend that you love them? It's probably not often enough. There are those friends that we love tremendously, and yet the sentiment goes unspoken. The love I speak of is not the type one feels toward a a…
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Moving On Minute

Moving On Upwards was created with the vision of making personal development and self-improvement accessible and fun. Who doesn't like becoming a better version of themselves? However, much of the content available in the aspirational…
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Greed, It's Not What People Really Want

Why is it that people want so much? People want bigger houses. They want stuff to fill their houses with. They desire an unnecessary abundance of food and clothing; much of which will spoil and inevitably get discarded as refuse. People…
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Assisting Others' Change: Choosing How Much to Invest and When it's Time to Stop

It's common knowledge that to create change in life, one needs to want to change first. Nobody is going to be able to make anyone else change. It just doesn't work. When someone resists change and continually put up barriers that prevent…
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Where Discipline is Born: How I Started Moving On Upwards

It's common for people to start out their lives believing what will happen to them, and more importantly what they are capable of, is outside of their individual control. This fatalistic view of life leads to self-victimization. This paralyzing…
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Why Read This? Here's 51% of the Reason.

A friend recently asked me what people get from reading my writing. I had to ponder this. I started listening to the book How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie shortly after hearing that question. In the early chapters…
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Endings & Beginnings

In these waning days of 2018 I feel it's important to reflect on the year that is passing. It's of equal import to consider the new year that is about to commence. In my life, 2018 has been a year of transition. It was the year I decided…
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Habit Stacking / Don't Snooze

My alarm buzzed this morning at 5:52 am. I hit the snooze button knowing the back-up on my phone was set for seven minutes later. I drifted back to that light NREM sleep that doesn't really have any positive benefit for the body. It kind…
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The Scam Is

You get a job to get paid, but you gotta work lots of hours each day. Divide up those hours by how much you get paid. It's not a lot by the hour. The fact is it's a fraction after taxes. Still you're there early and after hours; sometimes…

An Ambitious Ares: My Nano-Failure

I'm an ambitious Ares. Essentially that means I have tendencies built into my personality that I have to be cognizant of, or else those tendencies get me into trouble. Being an ambitious Ares means I exhibit a considerable amount of intensity…
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The Moments of Moving On Upwards

It is impossible not to recognize that moment. Isn't it? It's the moment where you realize you are doing the wrong thing with your life or you're on the wrong path. That moment stares you right in the face and screams your name. It calls…
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The Things I am Learning Volunteering

Children are strange little beings indeed. At their best they are smiling rays of light and life that uplift us in our darkest moments. At their worst they are snotty, obnoxious little people. Regardless of your general outlook on children,…
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Losing Weight and How it Improved my Life

I would like to share the story of my weight loss journey in hopes that it may inspire others to do the same. You too, can gain control of your physical being and become the person you've always wanted to be. It will not be easy, but it is…
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Finding Why

The "Why" is the common denominator that author, speaker, and thinker, Simon Sinek, has concluded separate most uber-successful businesses and leaders from their counterparts and contemporaries. Hence the concept Start With Why. However,…

One Powerful Read

Upon completing my reading of The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle I felt victorious. It was an incredibly deep and personal read. The Power of Now is the best non-fiction book I have read. I sincerely hope its teachings stay with me for the rest…
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The Super-power of Relaxation (Recent Epic Failure Included)

The past several days of my life have been filled with travel and wrapping up work and life responsibilities to prepare for a much-needed vacation. I reflect on how my tenor and mood have been. It is obvious that my mood has had a direct correlation…
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Kung Fu Friends

In recent days I have received a lot of commentary from close friends in regards to the advice and concepts introduced in the Pluck Those Weeds From Your Life article. A few have pointedly asked or wondered if I consider them weeds. To them…
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Pluck Those Weeds From Your Life

We all attempt to stay focused on what's important to us in our lives. Time with family, exploring our passions, and exercising are all examples of some of the best uses of our time and emotional energies. The people in our lives can be our…
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Feeling Adventurous?

When was the last adventure you embarked on? Has it been so long ago that you can barely remember the feelings it created within you? Monotony; it is what so many people are doomed to be in a perpetual state of. Whether it's based on fear,…
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Downsizing

In my thirty six years of existence I have taken so much. I have taken resources from our mother planet in such excess that forever will be well acquainted with my refuse. I have bought and traded and earned and stole and acquired countless…
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There is no I in team (but there are two U's in F.U.)

"There's no I in team." That old cliche. Bosses may say it after an employee refuses to stay late on day they had made plans. Coaches say it when a player asks for more touches or minutes. They say it as well when the players request more…
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Face First Into Fist (This Week's Colossal Failure)

I did it again. Failure seems to wait for it's chance to remind us that we are weak, slow, and dumb. It found me once again at my Kung Fu school last night. After our normal class ended and we bowed out I invited an old training partner…
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10 Reasons to Start Looking at Networking Positively

If you are the type of person who says, "Eww gross, networking..." then you probably won't read this article. If you already value your network, or if you are just building up your network from a small or malnourished one, then the title…
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Defining Success (a Narrative)

"A man has dreams of walking with giants, to carve his niche in the edifice of time..." -George Banks from Mary Poppins Shortly after my most recent article, Failure Habits Turned Into Successful Ones, a friend, Dave asked me what determines…
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Failure Habits Turned Into Successful Ones

Failing Upwards has been born and grown very organically. I originally set out to reinforce my writing habit and create a new habit of creative production and publication through these posts. My original intention was to produce fiction works.…
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Failure Makes for Progress

We've established that we want to be 9's striving to be 10's. It is impossible to never slip and fail or we'd already be the 10's we're striving to be. Perfection is an irresponsible and unattainable goal. You could spend the whole day doing…
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Making Babies (Creating Experience vs. Selling)

Selling is a part of nearly every occupation and business. My personal experience specifically is in retail and services. I have had tremendous success over the years learning skills and techniques in closing sales and building value. I would…
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Be Undeniable

It's time to give ourselves a pat on the back and a pep talk to get us ready for our future. So far here on Failing Upwards we have eliminated some of our worse habits and introduced new more positive ones (see: The Dichotomy of Habits).…
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Hack Your Life to Peaces (punny title, I know)

Hacking, it's not just for computers anymore. Technology today hacks things like note taking and to do lists making them much easier, more accessible, and most importantly quicker. Athletes hack their workouts to maximize gains and wins. Companies…
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Chase Your Happiness

It's hard, I know. You are making an attempt to be relentlessly optimistic and positive. You are doing your best to improve yourself every day and with every interaction. You have a general desire to add value to other's lives. Inevitably someone…
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The Interconnectivity of All Beings (or How You Met My Network)

Currently my career is in sales. I'm looking to transition back into management after an almost four year break. One of the tools I've placed into my tool-bag and forgot about from my decade of management was my network. Until recently I hadn't…
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The Time Space Continuum

My wife and I have created several entrepreneurial enterprises over the past decade. Occasionally our e-businesses would make a large sale or several moderate sized sales. These endeavors have cost us money in the acquisition of product or supplies…
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Using Defeat to Build Strength

I would like to share some of my experiences in Failing Upward, my personal philosophy. It is defined by a relentless positivity and continually making lemonade out of lemons. If I am going to fail or lose or get hurt or even get fired from…